Since being cooped up indoors, I have admittedly been doing a little more “Netflix and Chill” (alone!) than normal. I watched a documentary called “Miss Representation” the other evening and it touched on something I thought was interesting, because I have noticed it and felt the same way! I’m talking about the “sexy” super hero […]
Being a “Lady”
In the recently released video “Be a Lady” narrated by Cynthia Nixon – it spoke about the multitude of contradictory phrases, stereotypes and commentary that have been, and continue to be, pushed upon women. I don’t subscribe to the belief system that a “lady” is someone who never steps out of line, who never speaks […]
Friday the 13th
On my right shoulder I have a small paper airplane (apologies for the slightly blurry photo but I was a little shaky immediately after I got it). I got this in San Francisco during a visit to the bay area and hadn’t planned on it. I was there with an ex of mine and we […]
Who do you dress for?
I won’t lie – I dress a little…uniquely? I tend to gravitate toward self-expression through my hair, clothes and makeup. As illustrated below: *Vintage Christian Dior long-sleeve silk nightgown, layered under a black sheath, a white mid length sleeve button up shirt, belted, with black, strapped Converse platforms boots. Now – this is a BIT […]
Love at first sight?
With the old Valentines Day 2020 fast approaching, I thought it was an appropriate time to discuss this concept. Do I believe in this? No, and here’s why: Love requires respect, admiration, trust and much more. Those will never be established or built in a moment – therefore “love at first sight” really can’t exist […]
Since one of my 2020 “goals” is to figure out my spending/debt, I have been doing some reading into the psychology behind it. One interesting tidbit I read in the book Atomic Habits was about the “Diderot Effect” which is named after the 1700s French Philosopher, Denis Diderot. To sum it up quickly – it’s […]