Sometimes we lie. Sometimes it’s big and sometimes it’s small. We have a multitude of reasons, whether that’s self preservation or to spare someone else’s feelings, or even just out of boredom, but nonetheless the lies become something more than we ever intend and then all of a sudden they overwhelm the situation, no matter […]
Stemming from a conversation last night, that also continued today, I thought about the importance of my lady friends. Of late (the last three years or so of my life) I have found out a lot about myself, who I want to be and who I feel I truly am. The truest form of me, […]
Recently, I was thrown a bit of a curve ball, which in turn landed me in a situation I’m not all too familiar with…being “the other woman.” Who knew? Well admittedly, he did, but I wasn’t let in on the secret until later, unfortunately. Later…after he brought me coffee in bed, after a long night […]
Cheers to the Lonely
“It’s the most wonderful time of the year…” and yet it can be one of the bleakest times of the year for many. The joy and nostalgia of holiday memories with family and friends can only keep a person warm for so long, before the true “blue christmas” finds its way in. It’s an interesting […]
Running
Some people find running to be a momentary way to clear their head. Others call upon running only when they want to escape a particular situation or person. Yet others seem to run in circles with no real destination, but is running really a thing to be so frowned upon? YES, emphatically, I agree that […]
Closing the Chapter
The old saying goes “hindsight is 20/20” and I guess I can’t argue. Although my actual vision is far from perfect, I can say with some degree of confidence that you can’t know where you’re going if you don’t know where you’ve been. It feels a lot like my mind is spinning and I can’t […]

Cowboy Star Restaurant and Butchery – San Diego With nothing but rave reviews from people I know and a history of 8 years in the Gaslamp District of San Diego, I felt it was high time to give this place a shot, (check out the dinner menu by giving the old one, two click –> Here! ) Overall […]
Love and Knowledge
So recently I did something fun, all in the spirit of Valentines Day…and then it spiraled wildly out of control (in a good way). Sort of renewed my faith in humanity a bit (as my sister put it). Monday I got the idea that I should give 2 movie tickets each, to 20 military members. […]
Winds of Change
“Most people will not change until the pain of where they are is greater than the pain of change.”- Unknown While I don’t know who said that quote, I like it. Here recently my need for change has all but exploded. 2014 has started out “not with a sizzle, but with a BANG” (to quote […]
Never been to Jake’s before, but heard RAVE reviews from others, so I had to check it out. Chose to come during restaurant week since I also heard it’s pricey. Not surprising though, since it IS in Del Mar, which is notoriously NOT cheap. Let’s just jump right into this, so here we go…! Overall […]